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AITJ for telling my boss that my clothes dont affect my brain after he lectured me about dressing too casual?
Man working at a laptop in casual clothes with a faint, unbothered smile
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Man lounging with a laptop and a mildly amused, unbothered look
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The performance review already settled this. Great output, positive feedback, projects delivered on time, all while wearing exactly the same "unacceptable" outfit that's suddenly a crisis now. That's the tell. If competence and clothing were actually linked, this conversation would've happened months ago, not right after a boss decided he didn't like the vibe.
Calling out the logic gap wasn't disrespect, it was just accurate. Pointing out that a tank top doesn't lower anyone's IQ isn't combative, it's the kind of thing that should be obvious to anyone whose job doesn't involve a public-facing role. The real disrespect here is trying to turn a subjective personal preference into a formal write-up, using a handbook that doesn't even back him up.
And the coworkers calling this "picking a fight" have it backwards. Choosing comfort over a costume isn't the fight. Weaponizing a vague dress code to punish someone for being right in a tone you didn't like, that's the actual fight, and it's not a very flattering one to be starting as a manager.
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